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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not sure what to do, my only "leverage" is one more year of college that I will be paying for. 
DD goes off with strangers, but she thinks that they are safe because she has known them for say, five days at work. The last young man encouraged her to drive 2 hours away to W. Va. to meet an his family, she told me how they actually had to turn down a dirt road to get to the house. There, the family seems to be survivalists complete with poultry and a cow that they planned to slaughter. She had no idea that the house was so isolated or that they lived on a compound. 
She has been caught walking through cities at 11 pm at night to meet up with friends. Jogs through parks alone. Dog walking in isolated places. Pepper spray, but buried deep in purses. 
There is always a new boyfriend that involves driving hours to go see. 
It is next to impossible to talk to her. When I was younger (but much older than she is), I took some risks too. However, I was not so confident that I would be OK. And when I was warned, I listened. 
I am really scared, thinking of forcing her to allow me to speak to her therapist to inform him of the risks that she takes, or else no tuition next year. 
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TL/DR:

1. She went with a new friend to their home.
2. She moves about the city she lives in.
3. She travels with boyfriends.

None of this is unusual or particularly risky.  In fact, it would be unusual to not do these things.[/quote]

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