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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This person is not a match for you. Move on. [/quote]
The annoying part about this statement is that [b]other than this, he's the best boyfriend [/b]I've ever had. [/quote]

[b]In the right match, you do not have to say, "other than this, he's great". [/b]

This is not something you will ever fix or change. You are perfectly justified wanting to live a life where you do not have to argue about things.

There are many guys out there who are not daily arguers and also would make great boyfriends.

Finally, your boyfriend is testing a lot of boundaries - disrespectful tone, snide comments, interrupting, etc. This can be an entry into emotionally or verbally abusive relationships - the BF does something boundary-testing and waits to see how you respond. If you don't police/enforce the boundary, the boundary violations increase.

I know you'll say, but my BF is great, he will not abuse me, this is the only thing he does. But, how do you think women get into abusive relationships to start with?  The BF is always great in the beginning.

Ask me how I know.

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I don't think that's true at all. Are you seriously suggesting that in a perfect match the guy doesn't have a flaw? [/quote]

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