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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What kind of message does it send to your dd that hinting that she’s a bit heavy is such an insult that her dad is going to go nuclear over it?

That is not being a protective papa bear, that is a recipe for an eating disorder.

If even the suggestion that she might be a bit overweight causes dad to fly off the handle, what does it tell the dd about how important her weight is to her father?  This is not the win some of you are suggesting it is.  [/quote]

It’s not that weight is such a huge deal. The friend was making a dig at DD, and in a public forum, and in the context of celebrating DD’s accomplishments. It’s not about weight, it’s about trying to diminish DD and doing so publicly.[/quote]u

+1. The real question is why does your DH have a friendship with a guy who demeans women? Your DH's secret-keeping shows that he was fine with demeaning women, and even his "defense" of your daughter smacks of sexism (just concerned about her weight, and completely careless about the public damage to the wife).

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