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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not the silliest thing to her. If you want to stay in this relationship, just know next time she has a big first day of school kind of thing that she wants you to check in.

It's really not that hard.

My husband had to learn this, too. I was giving a presentation at a big conference a couple of years ago and he didn't text me that morning to say good luck - or check in later to see how it went. He told me he had no idea I'd want that. Now he knows and when I'm presenting at a conference he just texts me to say good luck.

People have to learn what matters to each other. That's being in a relationship.[/quote]

All these little expressed needs sound like tests to me. They aren't really needs if when they do not happen, you are one, still functioning, and are in a mental and physical state of mind to he able to give a long speech of why you need the need. [/quote]

You could look at them as tests. Or just know, this is what your partner likes - makes them feel connected and cared for. They aren't hiding it from you and getting angry you don't read their mind. They are telling you what helps them feel good. It's your choice what you do with that. [/quote]

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