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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I thought Christians were the religious people who had lots of rules about sex?[b] Jewish people have rules about sex even after marriage?[/quote][/b]

Really? you don'r know about orthodox Jewish practices?  The baths? No sex during a period? woman must be clean as verified by sometimes a rabbi if there is a question, and so on?  Sex on Fridays?

What are the sex laws in Orthodox Judaism?
A man may never force his wife to have sex. A couple may not have sexual relations while drunk or quarreling. Sex may never be used as a weapon against a spouse, either by depriving the spouse of sex or by compelling it. It is a serious offense to use sex (or lack thereof) to punish or manipulate a spouse.[/quote]

Hmmmm, and yet a whole movement is currently happening among the orthodox  right now where the women are refusing to go to the mikvah in attempt  to coerce some random man to release his wife from marriage. They are legally unwed now, but the wife must receive a "get" to be free. She cannot remarry. Her children from any subsequent relationship will be considered bastards. She will be yes, committing adultery. Until she receives 
a get,  she is still married. Now without the purifying mikvah, no sex, because she must be deemed "clean" after menses. So, that is manipulation, no? And yet, there's so much irony  here:

These women and the entire society collectively follow these manmade male rabbinical rules about a "get." They are victimized by their own system that they choose to follow.  Rabbis can authorize a ton of things, but apparently not about dissolving a marriage? Why?

So, OP, before you think about practicing this, look into the larger context of it all. Why not make up your own rules for marriage, and do what works for you? You aren't orthodox, so why does this interest you? The purity rules are followed by fundamentalist practice, but not the entirety of Judaism as a culture.

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Here is the story:
https://www.thejc.com/news/usa/orthodox-women-in-new-york-launch-sex-strike-to-protest-against-religious-divorce-sv8dxp5q[/quote]

The alternative to the sex strike is for sympathetic men in the community to beat the fear of God into the man refusing the gett. That might have already happened and failed. [/quote]

J[b]ust so we are clear,  all the people have agreed to this system of marriage, where the men hold all the power over the women. And this edict remains while rabbis can decide a host of other things regarding birth control, child rearing, permissible clothing, internet use, etc., but not this. This law stays for whatever reason, so we know what the reason actually is.[/b] So to get around this law, the men should beat up the guy who has what looks like full authority over his wife, and they do this mainly because they aren't getting any nooky because their wives aren't ritually "clean" and the wives won't do that so maybe they'll beat up the "get witholder." And everyone thinks this is how things work.  Is that correct?

Perhaps you missed my point, I don't know. [/quote]

And just so we are clear - it is these people who control the far right wing in Israel, to whom we, the American taxpayers are beholden. Soon, they will make up more than a third of the Israeli population, based on all the demographic projections. We are paying our tax dollars to have billions in aid sent to Israel to be spent to support these radical orthodox practitioners ability to practice their religion freely, while they continue to settle and colonize and terrorize Palestinians. Just great. Exactly what we signed up for as Americans. [/quote]

Well, it's the right wing Christians  here who support this, too. It's about fundamentalism generally. [/quote]

So the bible, torah, and koran are all against LGBTQ+ people and LGBTQ+ behavior?[/quote]

You are kind of late to the party, dear. [/quote]

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