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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to set some standards here, being hit on propositioned or flirted with is a gigantic gray area.

What isn’t hitting on someone:
A man giving a polite smile while you pass each other in a hallway, street or grocery store aisle is not hitting on you. A man making polite conversation in a waiting room is also not hitting on you. a man holding a door is not hitting on you.

What is hitting on someone:
You are beautiful, are you free for lunch?
I have never been so fascinated by someone so quickly, please God tell me you’re not married?
my flight doesn’t leave for four hours, would you like to come up to my room to relax a while?
That necklace lands in the most perfect spot on your neck, I’m sorry but I can’t concentrate on anything else.

So what’ll ll it be girls, are you being hit on or are these just everyday social situations where people are being polite to you?

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That would be very bizarre if anyone thought someone holding the door or smiling at you is a “proposition.” The times I have been it is quite obvious- like a suggestion we go somewhere private with a bottle of wine. Also, when it’s said, it’s said in a way that’s testing the waters, they say it in a kind of joking way to see if you’ll take the bait. I brush those things off and keep it moving. [/quote]

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