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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. The range of comments here stymies me even further. I have people telling me to go to more therapy and less therapy. I have people telling me to make friends at church, make friends among other Asian Americans, and make friends in the local house music scene. I have people telling me that I seem self aware and articulate, and people telling me that I am probably a difficult person to be friends with.

One thing is clear though — I should probably move out of my parents’ house and get any sort of job.

Honestly I regret posting this. All the different advice makes me feel more confused. [/quote]

I see something completely different. I see people asking you to take action on the things you want in life. Stop seeing yourself as a reflection of someone else and do something positive that requires action so you will have positive memories to move yourself forward.

Being a camp counselor is very hard work but you did it. And you didn't get fired and you were able to deal with a lot of people all at once. Do you know how many teachers and camp counselors get burnt out? It's a very draining profession always being around a lot of children. You did fine. Stop beating yourself up that it wasn't perfect and go out and find more things like this and work on gratitude to yourself and others for what did go right.[/quote]

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