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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP sounds like she is struggling with BPD + depression. Honestly people with these traits can be quite challenging to deal with so it’s not surprising that she is struggling to make friends. Suggestions include:

1. Get away from your parents 
2. Spend less time in therapy 
3. Consider reducing the drugs you are taking 
4. [b]Make a friend from your culture with whom you can vent about your parents.[/b] In actuality your parents were likely doing what they thought best, but you will never accept this. So find a buddy to rant about how terrible they are to make yourself feel better.
5. Figure out how can support yourself financially independent of your parents 
6. Remember that no one owes you their friendship 
7. Consider getting a pet[/quote]

I'm kind of surprised this didn't happen for OP in colleges though I can see how Covid screwed up socializing. I'm an Asian-American PP who went to an Ivy and made a lot of friends who I felt really "got" me and my parents/upbringing/challenges. It makes for much healthier venting.[/quote]

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