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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP.  Meant to explain by "going spectacularly south" that husband had affairs and they divorced.  I'm horrified that he agreed to adopt kids and then would do that.  The kids have abandonment issues because they know they are adopted and he is a very lazy divorced dad with respect to custody.[/quote]

Complete sidebar but it's incredibly how often men do this. They're unhappy (OK, that's no crime), but rather than having some integrity and stating their feelings and filing for divorce, they hang around, pout, then cheat, and then more often than not require a crow bar to get out of the house and move on.

I remember initiating multiple calm conversations with my unhappy ex, at one point even genuinely asking if he was seeing someone else (he was), and that if so we should just let each other go and it was ok. Nope, no affair, yes let's keep trying, nope no ideas about how to make that happen. Fast forward 6 mos and I found all the awful stuff on his phone, had to call my girlfriends to help me pack up his things, and change the locks.

And he still calls me to this day. I have no no words. 
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