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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think some men really like the feeling of being with a much smaller woman, because it makes them feel big and powerful.

[b]I also think some women like feeling small and, it must be said, powerless next to a big man.[/b]

This is based on my experience dating men 6' and up before marrying my husband (who is 5'9"). Some of those guys were way too invested in how petite I am, in a way that grossed me out. I vastly prefer being with someone who feels more like (and wants to be) my equal.

So yes, when I see those couples where he's super tall and she's really short, I do kind of assume it's a mutual fetish based on the power dynamics of that, and it gives me the icks.[/quote]

You are so far off the mark.  I do not feel "powerless" next to my tall husband. I feel like I am 6 feet myself because I am strong and athletic.  I can't help that I am short just like you can't help that you are tall. But I am a much nicer person than you.  Which is something you can control.

Try it sometime[/quote]
+1 I feel like Xena Princess warrior on the inside. Unfortunately, I'm barely 5'.  Doesn't stop me from having a strong personality who absolutely in no way defers to DH, who is 6'2". He knows I can take care of myself.[/quote]

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