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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just love your kid.

Let them know you're there for them. Let them know that whoever they prefer, they should be safe, and that a partner should always be kind and respectful. Welcome a boyfriend into your home the same way you would welcome any friend or partner. Follow his lead and keep an open line of a communication.

A doctor isn't needed, because there's nothing wrong with him. If he is anxious or needs someone else to talk to, a therapist can be great, but that's up to him. [/quote]

If he is advanced enough in his sexual identity to come out to his parents, he is certainly realizing his own sexual maturity and natural adolescent urges.

A doctors visit IS needed here, but it needs to be a doctor familiar with PREP who can prescribe.

Look OP, if he is not already having sex, he soon will (which is why you need to immediately provide condoms and make sure he knows to use them for both oral and anal).

But PREP is also needed.  Condoms break.  Teenagers are impulsive and - in the heat of the moment - unprotected anal sex happens, but PREP is his best shot at avoiding HiV.

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This is such an over-reaction for a kid that shows no indication of pursuing any sexual activity. If he's not having sex at 14 he soon will? That seems really specious. Like putting an IUD in a 10 year old girl because they are advanced enough in their sexuality to know they're straight. [/quote]

Huge difference between a 10 year-old girl and a 14 year-old boy who is sexually aware enough to feel the need to come out of the closet, sexually.[/quote]

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