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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, accept reality and accept that you are likely doing too much.[/quote] What does that mean? I’m needlessly worried about my elderly parent who is declining and I’m helping too much in an effort to keep them safe? Or, accept that I’m doing more than the unhelpful sibling and just pick up the slack? I’m curious how anyone thinks it is fair for one sibling to abdicate all responsibility and let the rest of the family handle it. Even more curious how siblings feel when the estate is ultimately split equally even though one sibling never did anything to help. To be clear: I don’t need or want the money. I’m in favor of spending whatever it takes to keep grandma healthy and safe. Interestingly, the unhelpful one has second guessed and even questioned certain financial decisions made by grandma and the other siblings. [/quote]
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