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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We only know OP's side. Your kids are not young. They will be ok. Don't tell them anything about the guy.
Kids don't care what mom did or you did. They wish you hadn't had any problems, but what's done is done. Don't continue this crap. I was that kid in the middle.
I screamed my head off to my dad about him telling me about mom doing this and that. I didn't care and still don't. Both are losers. One for cheating and the other for telling me. I have my own life. 
My ex shows his girlfriends to our kid all the time. He is supposed to introduce them to me first per court order. He never has. Not a big deal. I know they are not there to hurt his child. [/quote]

Your perspective is helpful. And you are correct in the sense that I have only presented my side of the story. Looking at the past we both could have been better spouses, but I didn't feel the need to cheat or be physically or verbally abusive. She went a different route and that's her choice. Perhaps I just to come.to the realization that if it's not him it would be someone else that my children will eventually be introduced too. Regarding the kids when I am with them the focus is entirely on them and me. I do not bring up the failed marriage or their mom at all. That's the advice my lawyer gave me early on while we were going through the divorce process because she wanted me about parental alienation and it's consequences [/quote]

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