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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Please don’t beat yourself up about this. Your uncle is incredibly rude. When you have a chance to visit the grave, you can prune the lavender back or uproot it. The fact that you are asking this question shows that you care. [/quote] OP here. I am annoyed that my uncle texted me about the overgrown bush, out of the blue, because they never, ever get in touch during the year. He didn't even ask how we are. I saw them more than a year ago and, again, he didn't ask how we were then. He was just droning on about how financially successful his adult children are, etc. I mean, my mum was his own sister. [b]Why is it just my responsibility? [/b]They live a 10-15 minute drive away from the grave. Anyway I will cut back the bush next time I visit and also contact the cemetery caretaker and/or a landscaper.[/quote] Because you planted it, obviously. That said, I wouldn't care at all what he thinks, and just let it grow. [/quote]
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