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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't make a life with this man if it wasn't something your brain/body told you was lighthearted and to dismiss. Something is telling you he's a jerk and wouldn't be supportive when bigger things happen down the line.[/quote]

That’s exactly what my gut is telling me. It’s like what Jen said about Brad -“he’s missing a sensitivity chip”.[b] I guess because he’s never outright mean[/b] but will say passive aggressive, insensitive things like in the OP frequently so I thought I was being hypersensitive.

His childhood friend, who came from a very wealthy family, committed suicide last year. They were clearing out his things a few weeks later and the family gave his versace robe to another mutual friend instead of my BF. My BF talked about incessantly how “unfair” it was and he “deserved” the robe because he had known him longer than their other mutual friend. It was so off putting and bizarre that the robe was his concern. Also, the childhood friend weighed about about 300 lbs and my BF is probably 160 lbs so even more bizarre that he was so upset about this robe….[/quote]
He IS being mean though. You are brushing it off because he keeps saying he's joking. He is saying very very mean things, and convincing you that you are too sensitive and that its your fault. [/quote]

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