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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm curious, is there any scenario in which a person can be genuinely concerned about whether a member of a group is physically able to participate and enjoy an event and express that in what was intended to be a 1:1 conversation about whether to suggest that event? If so, how would that have looked different in this case from what the MIL actually did? [/quote] Step one: Have actual evidence that this person is in poor physical condition. Do they complain while walking? Ask everyone to stop a minute or slow down? If you're always at the back of the pack, shut yer gob. Step two: Don't point fingers: Not "Can Larla handle this?" but "Does this look like the right level of challenge for everyone?"[/quote]
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