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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Assuming you are giving a cash gift, share how much you plan to give and any context for 2024. No, I’m not asking what you gave ten years ago! - For a standard wedding OR a wedding that was really expensive to travel to, I give $100-150 - For a very nice black tie wedding, I give $200-$250 - ALWAYS x2 for plus one - All in, thats probably $200-500 - If I am invited but can’t make it, I do a flat $100 from both of us - i routinely turn down invites if I dont feel “close” because most weddings I am invited to are out of town I am of a cultural context of “cover your plate” but am well aware for a nice wedding, $200 might not be enough to cover your plate[/quote] You are being cheap with the $100 for can’t make it if a closer relative. And if a closer person like a niece you are close with and a nice place $1,000 is better. BTW on Long Island, NYC and NY suburbs of NJ where gifts are higher I got those amounts above in 1996 from 1/2 the guests. [/quote]
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