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[quote=Anonymous]I think the manager was giving her a heads up that her mix up of emails of the two Black women COULD be seen as a microaggression and that she needs to make an effort not to have it happen again. This could be a career limiting move and the manager I'd letting her know that mistakes can be misinterpreted and t's time to stop making them. OP needs to be more careful with executive functioning skills, not keep worrying about it and searching her soul for subconscious reasons. Ruminating on it is also not doing anything. The manager told her what to do and she needs to do it. I had a colleague who used to make excuses for what people saw as her direct report's rude behavior. She felt that it was not her intention and excused it. That got old after a while. You can make mistakes a couple of times but then you have to change the behavior. People judge you on your actions.[/quote]
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