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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it OP. In still pictures I look like a blonde sorority girl, but I’m actually very technical/quantitative and my interests and hobbies are very “nerdy tech guy” and not at all “pilates and tennis PTA mom”. My demeanor and vibe isn’t feminine and nurturing at all. The huge mismatch between who people expect me to be based on appearance and who I actually am is kind of distressing because some men will abruptly lose interest once they figure it out and the men who might actually be into it won’t bother to approach me. I honestly have no idea how to present myself in a way that would fix that, because I’m a pretty conventional person and anything edgy would feel like a costume, like I’m not going out dressed like girl with the dragon tattoo.[/quote]

I’m a pta mom who has 3 tennis kids. I don’t play tennis but I have the physique. I really don’t think guys look for this. They meet a woman and either find her or attractive or not. Single women are so odd over analyzing this.

I live in an affluent neighborhood and there are many different types of women who all look very different. I do think most of the women are well educated, not fat and above average looking. DH noticed that our more affluent neighborhood has not fat people. Our country club has no fat people. [/quote]

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