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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your mistake was the Evite.  Either you or your daughter get the girl's cells and send the time and place in a group chat and ask the girls to text RSVP by x date. Follow up on that date with anyone that hasn't. [/quote]

My 15yo was invited to a birthday party this weekend via Evite. I had not RSVPd. Kid texted my kid and my kid told me to RSVP yes and I did.

[b]Are these girls your daughter hangs out with regularly?[/b][/quote]

These are friends she just made this school year. Outside of school, she hasn’t had a chance to hang out with them.[/quote]

These don't sound like close friends if they never get together outside of school. My guess is that these are "friendly" kids, not really friends. [b]Why the Evite? [/b]15 year olds don't do that. They text or message to coordinate date/time/place.

My 14 year old's friend has a birthday party on Saturday afternoon. The plans were made entirely between the kids, with no parental involvement, and through texts/messaging. Parents only get involved if someone needs a ride.[/quote]

Why not? It’s been my experience that other parents want some kind of communication with another parent before dropping them off at their house or a venue for a party instead of going off of their kid’s word. I thought the Evite would be easy since it includes all the information the parents need.[/quote]

Do you have teenagers? I absolutely just take my kid's word for it. YOu want me to drop you at Olive garden and come back in two hours? Okey dokey. I don't need to talk to Larla's mom. [/quote]

That’s too hands off for me. Kid could be lying and that’s how trouble starts. I want to know with who and what parent is supervising for any outings, or any home visits, if any. YMMV.[/quote]

Good lord. You're setting your kid up to be a social pariah. There was a girl who had parents like you in our group in high school. We did a slow fade on her because she interrogated everything we tried to do with her, whether it was hanging at the mall or going to a movie. Who was going to be there? What time would the event begin and end? Lady, I don't know. We're going to look at cheap jewelry at Claire's, laugh at the weird stuff at Hot Topic, and probably eat something gross like Taco Bell and Burger King. If various people are also at the mall and come talk to us, I can't control that.[/quote]

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