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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with attracting an ambitious man is that, while they want an ambitious woman, you have to be willing to cast those ambitions aside for the sake of the relationship. So be prepared to get a grad degree but not use it, go to med school then quit when you have kids, etc. As an ambitious woman myself, I've never understood this paradox. If I have the drive to accomplish these things, I have no interest in throwing in the towel when I meet a guy. Seems antithetical. [/quote] Yes, as a former wife of "ambitious" man I agree. He didn't want me to work/practice law and insisted on me taking more flexible job. Then during the divorce he flipped and blamed me for that. I only see it realistically happen past age 35 meeting a wealthy ambitious man, if the woman is gorgeous, has degrees and some sort of generational wealth or own flexible business. So she still has time to center her life around his needs and interests, and adapt to his lifestyle. [/quote]
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