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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's amazing that some PPs have more sympathy for a man who bails on his child who has never known any other father once he finds out he's not the biodad.  Where is the sympathy for the child who loses his father due to the sins of his mother before he was even born?  I think the old-school laws that presume a husband is the father of his wife's kids and require the payment of child support if a man holds himself out as the child's father are morally right.[/quote]

Where is the responsibility on the woman to not use a man to raise her children by lying and scheming? Why is the mother never held responsible for the choices she made?

I recently met a man who found out after 42 years of marriage that his wife had been cheating the entire time and that none of his three kids who he raised were his. One had significant disabilities and this man had been the primary caregiver at night then working 16 hours days to financially support the family while his wife ran around on him. I am sure many woman here will find a way to blame the man and call him names for not knowing sooner and cheer the woman for her skill in using him so well. Did he stick around - yes, still is the main caregiver for his now 30 year old son but I have absolutely no problem judging the woman for this. The devastation she caused this man and the whole family lies solely on her. [/quote]

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