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[quote=Anonymous]I’m not going to bash you OP.
But I will just point out what a PP above said.
You can have all the reason in the world to get irritated at him, but if you really want the RELATIONSHIP to change, it’s going to need to come from how you treat him and how you address him, because that’s the only thing you have the power to change.
And I think if you examine how your attitude toward him has worsened as the little issues have become more irritating to you, you’ll see that this is accurate.
This doesn’t mean you can’t address the issues.
It just means you have to start speaking to him with love and affection again. Even if you don’t feel it yet. Speak to him the way you would speak to your female bff. Sometimes we take our husbands for granted that they will just receive a scolding, (and yes sometimes we rationalize that they deserve it bc they are acting like a child)—but that reveals the disdain and lack of respect and it shows.
You can still have a conversation about what you’d like him to do or what bothers you about family habits or pet peeves.
Just speak to him as you would any other person you love and respect and who you want to love and respect you.[/quote]

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