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[quote=Anonymous]Op, you and your husband should check out the book "this is how your marriage ends." There's a plate by the sink example that I think you'll relate to. The isolated example you gave makes you sound wrong. I like the pp's advice to think about what you would have said if a friend came over and did the same thing. So you were being rigid and stubborn and his response sounded pretty reasonable, and then you escalated. But your frustration is not just about the plate. It's a whole picture that could be that you're extra rigid and controlling OR it could be that he's careless and disrespectful and not carrying his weight. Probably it's a combination of the two that leaves you both feeling disrespected and not getting what you want.[/quote]
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