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[quote=Anonymous]I would give her space to enjoy her new marriage (and honeymoon, and possible career or baby plans.) Brides, especially ones with high expectations, are usually stressed out leading up to the wedding. If you say you are angry that you did not get a special dance, after the whirlwind she just went through, she will probably look at you like you are crazy. I hope that was not your only memory/takeaway from the experience. Do not extend more money or shopping trips or pay for her vacation tickets. The best thing you can do for her is to make sure she can stand on her own two feet, and that your retirement is a stable and secure one, not give her everything she wants and then be resentful that she is not focusing on you in young adulthood. If she has kids she will learn that soon enough! [/quote]
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