Reply to Different relationship timelines

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Different relationship timelines "

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been in a relationship with this amazing woman for the past 15 months. We have made plans to move in together next month and get engaged over the summer. I’ve expressed my interest in settling down verbally and physical actions when we first met, and many times over the course of the relationship as I knew I wanted to marry her. Our plans were move in next month, get married next year, and start trying for a family soon after. She was on the same page this entire but now wants to go and to school for a degree advancement. She has always been on the fence but now feels that our relationship will give her the stability for it. She wants to get married but kids will be pushed back for 2-3 years until she’s done with school.

I love her and want to support her but I don’t want to wait and be an old dad. We are already in our thirties. Do I just suck it up and support her and wait? I’m not breaking up with her over this, and it’s not like I can make her have kids any sooner. [/quote]

OP, she is obviously using you as her support system while she goes to school.  While in school, she will look for better options to trade up from you.  Regardless, don't be a patsy.  Dump her now and move on with your life.[/quote]
Yep[/quote]

The way the PP wrote it seems harsh and cynical but truthfully I thought the same thing while reading the OP.  I'm sorry, OP.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics