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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To me—it’s very healthy to figure out your priorities.
[b]If OP values having kids or adherence to kid timeline above being married to this woman he loves—then he should absolutely break up with her and risk starting over to get what he wants MOST.[/b]

But for me, it was not worth losing him.
I love him and would not have wanted a life without him or to see him having “our life” without me……so I feel like I made the correct choice for me. 
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The bottom line is no one should feel like they are sacrificing something they aren’t willing to sacrifice in order to be in a relationship.  I don’t like to necessarily make it about love because loving someone and being compatible don’t always align.  Also, you can always flip any statement around to say well I put being married to this person above having xyz, well they were willing to risk not being with you because they prioritized having xyz.  That doesn’t mean you don’t love each other, it means the sacrifice of something felt bigger to one person than the other and either you cared less about it or you made your own cost/benefit that you felt okay with what you might be giving up.[/quote]

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