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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone is saying that the ds should be resilient and realize that sometimes plans change. Well, maybe his mom needs to realize that sometimes plans change and OP may want to spend a day with her family if their plans get canceled. Fair is fair[/quote] Yes, of course.  No one in this thread has said otherwise. And OP has not indicated that her friend would have a problem if she cancelled. [/quote]

This is OP. She would absolutely be pissed if I canceled.[/quote]

OP, I think a bit of distance may be in order. Tell her you have a plan with DS now.

I'd work on helping him with social skills and maybe get involved with activities - sports, scouts, church, etc. where he and you can meet others. I had a child with few friends and totally get how you feel but this other situation is not great or stable for you to try to cling onto. The power isn't balanced and it won't work out in the end no matter what you do. BTDT. [/quote]

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