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Reply to "Husband surprised me and I want to cry (not joyful tears)"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You don't say a thing. He tired and that's huge, his intentions were sweet you don't say a thing.[/quote] I totally disagree. Tell him how you feel, or he will keep doing stuff like this. Acknowledge that his intentions were good, but TELL HIM that your first reaction was to cry because of the reasons that you expressed.[/quote] Does your husband do that to you a lot? Tell you that he wants to cry because you didn’t get the perfect gift. That he is so disappointed that he is in tears because the garbage can and hooks you got for his man cave or garage are the wrong colour? And you appreciate knowing how upset you made him by getting he wrong colours? I find that such an odd dynamic to have. To use emotional manipulation and disappointment if your Payne doesn’t read your mind.[/quote] I am the person that you are responding to and, no, my husband doesn't do that to me because - NEWS FLASH - I don't mess with his stuff. And I usually ask for gift ideas. But if I didn't, and I got him something he didn't like, I would want him to tell me because we are adults and we can return things for something we like better. And if I really crossed a line like OP's husband, I would want him to make that absolutely clear.[/quote]
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