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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]!) I only have sex within monogamous, exclusive relationships

2) I don't have sex unless the guy gets tested and shows me the results

3) I use condoms

4) I get STD testing every year at my physical.

I'm not a nun, so I figure I'm doing the best I can do.[/quote]

As a guy if I bring up testing and show of results prior to engaging in sexual intimacy with a woman, the majority are aghast at me asking

It’s rare to run across a woman such as above

Are you older? [/quote]

I don’t think pp is a real girl.[/quote]

I’m not a PP but I’m a real woman and that’s my only approach. Men always get tested I bring it up if we had 3 dates and had a good make out session. I tell them it’s not for me but for their own health, too. 
Majority show me the paperwork, about 1/3 bails out for good.

[b]But yes, I’m in my 40s[/b] and this approach limits the number of partners to only those relationship-oriented. Which is totally fine by me! [/quote]

Pp male poster here who has faced negative reactions when asking for testing prior to intimacy

Yeah that sounds about right from what I’ve heard and hence why I asked the pp who listed her steps/criteria

Older women are more ok with testing - 20s/30s set not so much [/quote]

I was testing before sleeping with anyone in my 20s, too. Including my now exH. Because we were relationship oriented.

It’s the very negative  selection of women that you have. Or they just see you as a casual hookup and speed with many men at the same time, why bother testing ?

You also need to ask if she’s vaccinated against HPV if you don’t want to get a throat cancer

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