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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]This how you make close friends, by exposing yourself and trusting others.[/b] Try to pay it back by being there for her. Hope things get better for you. [/quote]

This, 1000%.  And this is why do many on DCUM and in DC din't have close friends.  Because they won't ever be vulnerable or ugly (even for a second or for a tiny crack) and they don't like it when others are vulnerable either.

Clearly there are 2 types of us on this thread.  Those of us who appreciate this vulnerable display, wouldn't let this phase us and would find this a bonding experience.  And those of us who would be disgusted by this show of weakness.  You're going to have to hope that your friend is the former!  As someone who is in the former, I would firmly say --don't send flowers or a plant or chocolates.  That would make me feel super awkward as I'd be completely ok with (in fact as another poster said--almost honored by) what happened.  Patching it up with a plant comes off as you saying "oh shoot. I was weak and showed that I needed you.  Now let me put my armor back up".  Just let it ride--you apologized.  That was certainly needed but it is enough.  [/quote]

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