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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For some reason, Married people have less sex after marriage than before marriage.[/quote]

I think it's a bunch of things. Familiarity is less sexy than novelty; this is the person you hear pooping and farting in the bathroom; every marriage has its resentments; you get busy with other things; aging does a number on us all; etc.

That said I wish my spouse were interested in s** still. They have recently started therapy in part for this issue.

It's been a very very long time for us. My spouse just lost interest a number of years ago - was never high drive, except in the very first year of our relationship, but for the last (xxx) years it's been absolutely nothing. They are still very affectionate, loving, complimentary, all that.

What's it done to me? I am frustrated - very frustrated - and sad a few times a month, feeling like this person I married is holding my s** life hostage, basically. Like I might never get that feeling of *being* with someone ever again. But also I love this person and am not looking to blow up our lives together. I guess the main thing it's done to me is that now I kind of can't believe other people can just go and have s** when they want to - it's actually something they can do, like skydiving or whatever! It seems so out of reach, so to speak.

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^ Oh and like another pp said - health issues can really get in the way. My spouse has some very serious health issues that contribute to this for us. It's not the whole of it but it's part of it.[/quote]

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