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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][i]Generally invites come with RSVP counts. [b]
If yours did not, then I’d ask the hostess if this event allows for +1.

If she says no, then no it is. Don’t try to persuade her to allow +1. She might feel pressured to say yes.

If she says yes, then sure, bring em and make sure you give him a lay of the land of who is who.

[/quote]  It sounds like a text invite to meet for dinner, not a wedding.[/quote]

OP. Right.[/quote]

Then go back to 21.04. This is about the friendship. People are responding like this is a formal invite ("the hostess") vs a hangout with friends and getting hung-up on the venue/cost. It's not a formal thing. In my own friendships, I'd be like "hey! It's been awhile since we touched base, but I've been with X for Y number of months/years and would love for you to meet him! Maybe we could do coffee or lunch that day?" If they have any grace at all they'll obviously say bring him to dinner. He can win extra points by being one of the first to pull out his credit card at the end. Done. [/quote]

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