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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]do you really want to get married at 24?
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Yes, she absolutely should.

So many millennials bought into the idea that women should wait to get married in their 30s, and data now shows that by 2030, over 50% of 35 year old women will be single and childless.

OP of you have in your heart that he is the  guy worthy of your partnership in marriage—go for it! Even if you break up, if you DON’T go, you’ll always wonder whether you would have married each other if you had gone. People rarely regret the risk. What they regret is NOT taking the risk.
Follow your heart, OP[/quote]

TBF, many of those women don’t want to marry or have children.

OP, I would ask myself if the new place is somewhere I would want to be without the BF. I’d consider what the move would do to my career trajectory (I know you can move with your company but will it help or harm you? I’d also wonder about whether by moving there would be an implicit commitment to put roots down in the new place. I’d definitely consider leaving my support network.

My choice would probably be to do long distance for six months to a year, and then decide. If you can’t make it work long distance, he wasn’t the one. If you both stay committed and want to be together after that time, figure out the next steps.

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