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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]do you really want to get married at 24?
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Yes, she absolutely should.

So many millennials bought into the idea that women should wait to get married in their 30s, and data now shows that by 2030, over 50% of 35 year old women will be single and childless.

OP of you have in your heart that he is the  guy worthy of your partnership in marriage—go for it! Even if you break up, if you DON’T go, you’ll always wonder whether you would have married each other if you had gone. People rarely regret the risk. What they regret is NOT taking the risk.
Follow your heart, OP[/quote]

PP. this is horrible advice. I posted that my ex moved away and later proposed after 8 months of long distance. I moved after the wedding: I am divorced. I was married a miserable decade because I was stuck in that state most of the time.

If a man can leave you for a job without proposing first, he does not really love you.

My ex didn’t love me. He would not have left without securing our relationship. He also did not understand the sacrifices I had to my to upend my life and career…a man who loves you does not make the woman make all the sacrifices.

I learned the hard way.

[b]Also, I am Gen X and STILL firmly believe no one should marry before 30. No one. Life is too long. Your brain is not even adult functioning until age 26. [/b]

Don’t do it without a ring and a date and make sure you 100% ok with giving up your life here to be alone with this man in a new city. It is extremely hard on a relationship on even the best of circumstances. [/quote]

Speak for yourself. I've known a few millennial women who married out of college and they are happy, and yes, they are professional  women (nor Mormons).[/quote]

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