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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you move to another state for BF's new job if [b]there is talk to eventually marrying but no ring or definite date. [/b]Both working two year post college and you can find a role within your company in new state. Should you move, long distance or end? You'll be leaving your family and support network. Is it worth the risk if you love the guy?[/quote] If you want to move to that city and wouldn’t regret the move if you ended up breaking up once you are out there then okay. If you are moving because you are making the sacrifices of a spouse without having that commitment then no way unless you have deeper conversations. Can both of you see each other as end game and have you had the type of conversations one would if they are getting married - like pre-marital counseling type conversation? Have you spoken in general of when you can see being engaged or married? Some people have certain milestones of either age or certain accomplishments like not before 30 or after completing grad school etc.[/quote]
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