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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been seeing a guy for 4 months. I’ve been enjoying getting to know him and I was excited for what could be. Today I randomly got a text from my ex-bf that he was moving back and would love to reconnect.

Ex backstory: We were together for 2.5 years. I planned on marrying him. He got a job offered within his company for a promotion and he took it. We tried to make long distance work but I ended it after 6 months apart. His job would eventually move him back but there was never a concrete timeline. He didn’t want to get married/have kids until we both lived in the same state again. I ultimately decided timing wasn’t on his side and that we needed to move on. I didn’t want to wait up to 3 years. The break up was very hard and we I eventually broke contact completely to move on.

New guy: I met him 5 months after breaking up with my ex. We were set up by friends. It’s been going really well but still very early.

I haven’t replied to my ex yet or I should. Moving on from him was incredibly difficult, and I’m not sure if I could ever go through that again. I also deep down never stopped loving him. [b]The new guy I like too and I can see myself falling in love with him. He’s also very aligned with my timeline [/b]and we have a lot of fun together. I didn’t think I would find anyone else after my ex until I met him.

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You don't love this man and you are never going to love this man.
You're going to do what many women do at your age, marry the guy they are with so they can say they have a husband and be mom.

Then 10 years in you;ll be on here talking about how you don't really love him, and you're just together for the kids.

Then at that time or add another 5 years you'll be asking if it's okay to meet up with your ex for coffee, it's no big deal because you're both married with kids, and it's just cofee.[/quote]

OP said they have only been dating for 4 months. That’s really early to be in love for most people. [/quote]

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