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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just be honest with yourself and him.  You want an exclusive F buddy.  You’ll sleep with him but date other and he can date others but you want him to only sleep with you.  You remind me so much of a good friend of mine who treated and treats dating exactly like you do.  She’s been single for over ten years and she’s miserable.  She’s incredibly attractive though, so she still gets asked out frequently by different men.  But she is incredibly unrealistic.

I think you should just make your profile clear that you want someone to have sex with exclusively but if they aren’t everything you’re looking for in a partner you’re going to continue to ho around.[/quote]

OP here - but I am not miserable I’m happy single and with my lifestyle. [/quote]

Which is fine.

But generally, a smart, successful, handsome single father who takes parenting seriously is not going to want to waste his valuable time with a kind of/sort of/maybe/doesn't know what she wants/but wants to fool around while seeing other men kind of woman. He will have no interest in becoming emotionally invested with a woman who really wants to keep dating lots of other men.

So let him go.

If you are an attractive divorced woman who wants to casually date for the foreseeable future, you have a million options. They are lots of men who have no interest in an exclusive relationship. And he too will have lots of options. There are many attractive women who very much want what you don't seem to want - a monogamous relationship with a good man and who aren't scared off by the fact that he has a kid.

You guys aren't compatible. Don't string him along. End it.  [/quote]

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