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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Pretty inappropriate, TBH.

It also sounds like cheating to me if you are having butterflies and getting excited for your date.

I mean, you know this.[/quote]

[b]They can both have butterflies as long they know to then go home and have fun with their respective spouses. [/b]
That works for a LOT of couples. 
It's just that OP expressed it in a rather provoking way. [/quote]

Reads like an attempt to justify testing the waters for a potential affair, and a setup to fall into an emotional affair even if it never gets physical.
And yes, emotional affairs are a real thing. They aren't just a "frisson" of fun to spice up your marital bedroom back home. They can do actual damage. [/quote]

Yeah, well, I've been doing this for years and no harm done. Married 20 years, kids in high school and college. Circle of good friends.

Live a little, people! You only have one life.
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A lot of people have their “first” affair at the 20, 25, 30 year mark.  You’re not some sort of “pro” because you’ve been married for a long time.

This whole “frisson” idea to me is playing with 🔥🔥🔥🔥.  When I am happy with DH, no other man can appeal to me.[/quote]

Just because it doesn't appeal to you, doesn't mean you need to dump on others who have different opinions. I'm sure you do things I would consider risky in your life. Do I judge? No. Live your life. I'm going to enjoy mine.

I'm PP you replied to, I'm 44, and have to laugh at all the busybodies who desperately want to shame and control everyone who isn't living the exact same life. I'll play with the fire, thank you.

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What if the wife tells your husband? [/quote]

And the entire community?

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