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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I mean it sounds like she went through a low patch where she was avoiding old friends but is now trying to get over it by extending this invitation.  I wouldn’t let your pique get in the way of your decision — do you still like her/want to hang out with her?  Is the trip affordable for you?  Is it to a destination you genuinely want to visit?[/quote]

Yes, the location is somewhere I want to go. Money is not an issue.

I actually tried to meet up again and willing to drive to her and she said let’s just meet up on the vacation. It makes me wonder if I want to travel with her if she won’t even meet me for several years.

She got divorced right before Covid. She moved in with her mother and she was sick and died. It has been a tough few years for her for sure. Her mom passed away over a year ago. [/quote]

A couple of tough yrs is an understatement. So she gets divorced, moves in with her ill mother, cares for her for a couple of years - during COVID, and then her mom dies a yr ago. Now she has a milestone bday - maybe 40, when she might be facing the idea that she won’t be a mom. And you’re like “why won’t you meet me at Applebees for lunch?”

She is struggling. Go if you care about her & your friendship.[/quote]
She was also abducted by aliens! [/quote]

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