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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sometimes people change.

[b]Sometimes a behavior might be manageable, only mildly frustrating when you are dating, but becomes an absolute nightmare when you hit some of the challenges of marriage, including: kids, medical or mental health issues, financial issues, professional stress, etc. For this I think of the many people who post on here talking about spouses who it turns out have untreated ADHD that really did not become apparent until they had kids and they realized their spouse had absolutely no ability to juggle parenthood and a job.
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Agree with PP that sometimes people marry someone who might not be a good fit because they are worried they won't find someone else.

Also I think of people who have incredibly low self esteem but actually have a ton going for them (smart, attractive, hard working, kind). and wind up with people who don't appreciate them because they don't know their own worth. I think people in this category often had abuse or neglect in their childhood and are repeating patterns.[/quote]

My DH's anger issues didn't emerge until we had kids whom disrupted his orderly, quiet life. I feel like our marriage will improve when we get to the empty next stage (not too long now).[/quote]

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