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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Narcissists are really good at hiding their behavior. In fact they love bomb in the beginning and do the ultimate bait and switch once you are trapped. It happens a lot. I think once you deal with a narcissist and experience the love bombing it’s easy to spot it in future relationships or when others are experiencing it, but the first time you experience it you feel like you’re in a fairy tale. I didn’t marry one but was in a long term relationship with one, but my best friend did and by year two of marriage and a baby on the way the cracks started to show but she thought they could work through it. By year 4 or so her partner didn’t even try to hide it anymore. [/quote]

You received your degree to diagnose from google?[/quote]

Touchy!! Did I hit a nerve? Have you been called a narcissist time and time again by others who aren’t doctors? Hmmm. Well another thing about most narcissists is they believe their selfish thoughts are the only truth and gaslight everyone else around them to make them feel as they are crazy and also have an inflated sense of self worth on top of that, so they are extremely hard to ever get a diagnosis from a doctor because they would never go to one because they think they are fine and are oh so offended when one would even suggest getting help, thus making them extremely hard to treat. Does that sound familiar?

I’ve read many books, discussed with my own therapist who agreed with NPD, as did his own parents and siblings. Regardless, when you live with one they are very easy to spot once they take off the mask. [/quote]

No- So, you don’t have the knowledge to diagnose and just throw that word around. [/quote]

A textbook narcissist is a textbook narcissist. If someone shows consistent classic signs of depression, they are depressed whether they are officially diagnosed or not. You don’t need to be offended by that, especially when it has nothing to do with you. There is no reason for you to argue with me what I experienced and even name call unless you need clout and +1’s from random internet friends. Unless….

For some reason my post sharing my experience of being a victim of narcissism (a real thing) really offended you. Why? Another trait of a narcissist is lack of empathy. Just sayin.

And oh the irony that you can’t let it go that I’m not a doctor and can’t officially diagnose, yet you call me a psycho. [/quote]

I also want to add that I am sooo grateful for my experience with my ex who was a narcissist. I am now married to a wonderful man and I’m living the dream!!! I just wanted to give some insight to the OP who had a great question!! To the haters who are literally dragging me for discussing my experience, I can see why you are here in this thread! If you continue to nitpick and look for things to argue about and split hairs to every statement ever said, you’ll continue to have a miserable marriage/life. Have a wonderful Sunday evening 💖💖💖💖💖💖[/quote]

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