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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here - lol I never said anything about droning on. And it's not some intense dislike of him. More like they don't think he's good enough for me for various reasons, because I'm wonderful in their eyes and he's not. And I do get annoyed/defensive, but I don't see how it's my responsibility to convince them that he's great. I have enough on my plate. [/quote] You don't understand boundaries at all and you sound immature. You can not control other people so it isn't your job to convince your parents that your spouse is wonderful. They get to have their opinion but your job is not to tolerate any criticism of him from them. Hang up the phone, walk away etc any time they start. You do not discuss this with them as it is not their business. You set a boundary with them that you won't tolerate disrespect of him and that is all. I feel sorry for your husband. [/quote]
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