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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d put an in-law apartment on the property and live in that. [/quote]

OP here. There is already a guest apartment on the property, currently used as my home office (I work from home).  It is only 560 sq ft but it has a kitchen, bath, living room and a bedroom. I might just move there full-time.[/quote]

You work from home and are worried about keeping up appearances on a neighborhood? Move into the guest house and put some money together to move. There are some really sweet neighborhoods that you can move to on your salary which is much more than mine. Force the sale of the house then wait as rates subside. When it gets around 3.5% you can afford about a $700k -800k house. Get one that is move in ready. Try to find a townhome with no yard work. Those quiet silver spring neighborhoods that are a little farther out like 4 corners and up along 29 where it’s real quiet and new developments are where you should be looking. I’m not familiar with Virginia at all but people here can point you in the right direction. Actually those neighborhoods are affordable for you RIGHT NOW as you can find a town house for 4-550k. Your kid can have 2 houses.[/quote]

I agree except rates are never going to go back to 3.5%. OP needs to start making plans based on reality. [/quote]

All I hear from OP are excuses.  OP, if you are that concerned about appearances, everyone knows.  You will gain more respect by leaving this excuse for a man. [/quote]

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