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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gosh I’m sorry to hear this . I am not in this situation but I wonder if you both could agree to live separately under one roof . You may agree that you both could seek out companions (I know this opens the marriage.) does your daughter know you’re miserable ? She must at this point . If you have cardiac issues I don’t think it’s worth torturing yourself like this and risking your health . Have you tried therapy ?[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for your kind words. We already live separately under the same roof. Our daughter knows this. I wouldn't care if he started seeing other women. In fact, he had several affairs in the past (before we "separated"). As for me, I don't have the bandwidth to date.

I have tried therapy, and it seemed to be a waste of time.[/quote]

Probably because you were not open to doing anything different, and then wondered why the problems weren't solved.

You are living a very unhealthy life, and dragging a child into it.

It is not normal for a child to sleep with their parent at 13. 
She is probably traumatized and feels unsafe. Please get help for her and yourself.

Your husband can fend for himself. You are not his guardian. [/quote]

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