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Both of these posts seem accurate to me.  As a decent looking middle aged man with a good job, I can't actually juggle four women at the same time, but two at the same time isn't hard, and four over a six month period is easy.  It doesn't involve dishonesty.  The women don't usually want to know about the others, at least at the beginning, and they don't usually ask, at least not directly.

I also know several women who want three to five of the qualities listed in the second post.  I've played all of those roles at some point.

Here's the thing that some people don't get.  These relationships usually aren't transactional and they usually aren't just physical.  Also, a lot of serial monogamists are really just "monogamish," and that's true of both men and women.

Often, when women like rich guys for gifts, the women like the feeling of being appreciated and receiving attention.   These women aren't having sex for money or jewelry or nice dinners. They're actually drawn to the men.

The "friend with benefits for when she doesn't want to dress up" is someone who makes her feel relaxed and sexually satisfied, but he's probably not just a sex object.

You could write a whole separate post about women who like "fatherly" guys.  Yes, it's for the kids, but its also about a desire to feel secure.

Even the women who keep a guy's genitalia in a jar may be very attracted to the guy and feel terrible when he eventually takes his genitals elsewhere, or when he finds out that he's been juggling multiple women because she kept him on a shelf as backup.

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This PP is totally accurate. I've wanted men for all 3.
I don't need one to be fatherly to my kids. If DH and I separate/divorce, he will remain fatherly to his kids and I don't need another man to play the role.
Women do typically have a backup guy but since its not steady and he's probably seeing other people, there's the ick factor.
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