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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he is a people-pleaser who tells you what you want to hear but isn't willing to follow through. And I get that it is maddening. Because you can't really believe anything he commits to. Or else your communication is poor and he actually means "Unless my boss calls me" and he isn't saying that caveat aloud. You need to be more clear with him (and I know you felt like you were clear but he's obviously not catching your meaning) that a boss phone call is not a good reason. If that means he doesn't do this task, he does a different task.

I had this fight with my husband so many times. "If you can't do it, don't tell me you will do it." "Why did you agree to this if you won't actually do it?" It took a year of  having that conversation before he got it. Now he only agrees to do things that are realistically possible.[/quote]

Same! That's a reoccurring fight in our house. DH agrees then doesn't follow through. I'm glad your DH finally changed his approach. Mine won't say no to anything then gets mad when I'm upset about him failing to uphold his agreement.[/quote]

Maybe he fears conflict and can't handle it and that's why he won't say now, and that's also why he gets mad.[/quote]

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