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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I've decided to send the pictures, only because I have to. Yes, I know the adoption is final, & have nothing to worry about. And, I am grateful that I was chosen, but does that mean I am obligated forever to let her know how I'm doing raising her biological child? I agree w/the PP's, who understand the advocacy of foreign adoptions. My thing is, if you made a decision, albeit a difficult one, to allow another family to adopt your child, then that family should be left alone to do so, without their interference. Maybe a one time photo, but this, what I believe is a "check-in or report in to" a birth family annually kind of makes you feel like they're forever a part of this, & it sucks. Thank God we didn't agree to visitation. Call me cruel, but that's how I, and many others, feel. [/quote] Your kid is going to need serious therapy because of you and your attitude. [/quote]
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