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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If a man was quite physical on the first date would you assume he’s not interested in a long-term relationship? Kissing, touching, hugging, not full on making out but towards.[/quote]

Pushing beyond boundaries is bad.  Behaving like an impatient teenager reeks of immaturity and desperation.  But there is nothing wrong with making your interest clear.  Especially with online dating, there are too many time wasters and tire kickers.  So if I was interested, then I always kissed my date goodnight.  If I just got a cheek, then it saved us both time.

A woman who is truly interested will not take offense to a man who is forthright about his interest.  At worst, she will politely delay an invitation to come inside for midnight coffee.  It is a much bigger risk that she gets bored or rationalizes that there was no chemistry if a man is a wuss does nothing.

Besides, time is short, and you don't know whether there is chemistry until you kiss.  I wanted to leave her with something to think about:  "How brazen to kiss me on the first date!  It is a good thing I didn't need him to drive me home!  I wonder what he would have done?  I wonder when he will call again?"[/quote]

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