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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How many people has he done this with before? Like if it’s a list of questions he runs through with everyone at the 6 month mark, I too would feel like I was being interrogated and assessed, data-analytics style, and that would not be a relationship for me. Conversely,  if this is the first time he’s ever done such a thing, I might have mixed feelings on that too. On one hand I’d feel flattered that he was so seriously and carefully considering a future with me, but on the other, depending on how detailed and extensive the questions are, it would be weird that he’d gone ahead and done all this alone without even knowing whether I’d be into the idea. I guess the point is that he needs to be with someone who would respond positively to this. Is he an organized, secretly passionate guy with a super clear vision of the future that he wants to share with you? Or is he assessing you on a point scale? Does this strike you as controlling, or really an attempt to be vulnerable and open with you?[/quote]

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